How to Satisfy Your Wife in Bed

As a man, I am still surprised at how important it is to me that my wife is happy

It can really put a dampener on any man's day when his wife is in a mood

And on the other side of the coin, it makes me feel 10 feet tall knowing that my wife is happy, especially when it's something I have done

And nowhere else does this principal apply more than in the bedroom

Let's take a step back and look at sex for a second…

When you think about it we are the ones who are putting on the show

We put in most of the effort

And it's certainly justified that if we are going to put in all this energy, then we want to feel not just appreciated but valued

How to Satisfy your Wife in bed- When She's Ready

Men like the thought of pleasing their wives, or any potential mate more than their own satisfaction many times

 

It doesn't take much for our wives to make us feel like were not doing the best thing and when they do it can cut pretty deep

So the next time you and your wife are having some intimate time. How do you make it into fireworks, instead of a business like affair where you both clock in and everything is routine?

 

I'm glad you found this site…

Because many men go about it the wrong way and by being smart and doing some research you can avoid the usual trap

 

The truth is you don't need to be an athlete and hung like a horse to please your wife

Why?

Because women aren't like men

It's not all about looks and physical features for them. That's what we like

She prefers drama and intrigue…

To make her happy, you need to turn her brain on

It sounds corny but you work out and tie weights to your dick til the cows come home. It's not going to turn your wife on any more…

 

So with this in mind…

What is the #1 trick to satisfy your wife in bed?

Truth is, it's in the buildup

Selling that sizzle… Women love drama, reading books about romance and etc. The anticipation is big for them.

I've read other online material on the subject and it doesn't give this credit (and i know it's not the easy thing to hear)

There are a few good study based books that on the subject. See here and here and here

 

Basically what she wants is the right type of attention… give her this and she wont be able to control herself

 

How to Give Her What She Wants

Here are a few ideas that work

Taking her out at least once a month

Yep out at the movies, to the park, walking along the beach, go dancing… Do whatever together. It's important for her that you make time for her.

Hold Space for Her

This is where you help keep things at bay so she has the time and energy to invest in being sexual. I.e. reduce her working hours, hire a maid, take care of something she would of had to do etc.

The Revive Her Drive system covers this important concept in detail along with others

Sexual Innuendo

Not crude but so you both know what you mean. Get her thinking about it when she otherwise wouldn't be

You can also do this from a distance with your mobile phone. Kind of like prepping her for later 🙂

I know it's not what you want to hear but it is what works

 

Now the Practical Stuff 🙂

Ok so if your feeling that you have the previous section covered then what else is there..?

Technique!

Here's a short list of what you need to do in the bedroom to guarantee her to get off

Last Longer

It takes a minimum of about 8 minutes of intercourse for a woman – if you are having trouble with this stop suffering now! I have written a post about it here

 

Dirty Talk

I haven't surveyed anyone about this and it's effectiveness but it is a great tool for her. If your not currently using it you should definitely start easing in some dirty talk the next opportunity you get

(It ties in this story/drama with sex very well)

 

Sex Somewhere Different

Mirrors in the bathroom, the kitchen counter in the kitchen or in the backyard or somewhere more risque if you like. Again the story/drama element

 

Porn

You can try porn but this is more for you than for her

 

Education on Anatomy

In a nutshell it doesn't take much to stimulate a woman, mechanically. Fingers are the easiest way and it's all about repetitive touch done the right way in the right areas…

She'll do the rest

NOTE: For an in-depth master's view into how to play a woman's body like a fender stratocaster, then watch this short video. It is well worth your time

 

All these things together will have your wife's satisfaction on the right track, especially if you decide to do the bonus sections…

It can take a little practice but that's not always a bad thing 🙂

 

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